Sex with a shattered woman

Do you know what I think one of the bravest things is?

A shattered woman having sex again with someone else. Truly, she’s been abused terribly and here she is, willing to be naked in front of a man body and soul and try again.

It’s taken a lot for me to say that, because this is a subject that we all find uncomfortable, but as a Modern Gentleman it is a part of who I am to have the uncomfortable conversations. I have taken a couple of shattered women through that stage of their journey. They have been terrified at first. But with kindness and being ever so gentle, they have been able to open up, lay back and allow me to take them places they have never experienced before. Once they start seeing what they have been missing all that time, they become willing participants in exploration of their bodies.

Dear shattered woman. I see you. I hear you. This Modern Gentleman has pride in you wanting to move forward. You got this, you really do. Feel the fear, it’s ok to do so, and move forward.

 

-The Modern Gentleman

-How to love a shattered woman.

 


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