Labels

 

Labels in this world are very useful, we identify food, plants, pretty much everything. The problem is sometimes there is no correct label. I fit no exact label. I guess the closest is Pleasure Dom (dominant). It’s shitty and ill fitting though.

I guess it’s part of why I am still single, I can’t easily place myself in any particular category.

You see, I refuse to inflict pain on a woman. It’s just not me. The whole ropes and restraints doesn’t do a lot either. But I need a sub (submissive) the right one, one who is willing to release her body and mind. You see, my fetish is in making a woman orgasm, not just one small orgasm, it’s pushing further and further for more and larger orgasms. Achieving this takes time, it’s not going to happen the first time. I can achieve some fantastic ones the first time but it takes learning and trying things to truly take her places. Sometimes the journey can be as much fun as the destination.

The most difficult part is treading a fine line, pushing her to her limits but holding back enough because if you go too far she passes out and that is not great on my part, sitting there frustrated after pleasuring her for hours. Unfortunately, this happens a lot because seeing her in a mess of orgasms makes me want to push her more and further. Hitting that balance is not easy when neither of you wants to hold back.

So, you say, what’s in it for me? There has to be pleasure beyond just pleasuring her. There is. In sexual terms, after she’s had her fill I can be completely selfish in what I want. I keep it varied but I can keep it about me and take as long or be as quick as I please.

Outside of sex, I’m still the strong person, but, not always. I love a woman who is kind and tender with a side of sass. Who will be gentle towards me. I guess a woman with slightly sub tendencies there too.

Me n her = Gentle

Me n her against the world = Badasses.

Don’t ever hurt her. I hate fights and arguments and I will walk away when possible. But I will be relentless when I have to be. I’m old and well-practiced.